Now im very fond of the little map that tells me where you all are today i have Cambodia Gibralter and Hong Kong at the bottom of the list . The one that worries me however is unknown region , is this perhaps Atlantis , aliens another dimension maybe? So if your the viewer from unknown do say hello .
Im enjoying the peace as the socially isolated duo of other half and his brother have gimped off to his dads, to start on the sheds at the actual house now . Ive noticed that various strange piles of crap have appeared in the garden , including two sets of large aluminium ladders , hes got till the end of the month, we already have ladders we dont need more !! Plus the kitchen has gained a large router with all the bench and bits and other stuff that comes with it , im informed they are just passing through , knowing my other half hes planning on trying to hide them somewhere here . I do love him but he is the pack rat from hell . He did say that trying to clear his dads mess makes him realise how bad it would be if he snuffed it , not noticed him getting rid off anything ...lol
Then he announced hes thought of getting a camper van , it would be easier to fish he says with his toilet with him , i already spend half my life dealing with that side of things , so cleaning out a camper van loo would be a real holiday treat for me to look forward to . I just want a nice normal holiday but his disabilities rule out most places , theres a few holiday cottages that cater for the disabled but theyre booked up years in advance and so expensive theyre out of our league .
You dont realise the daft aspects of caring for someone with a disability , to look at my other half when hes sat down he appears perfectly normal . When hes up and walking you can see something is very wrong , his legs dont appear to be on quite right and he walks badly even with his crutches . It also looks like hes had a stroke on one side, this comes and goes through the day , but its much worse as the day goes on. when hes bad his words slur he gets word salad and the tremors come out with a vengeance. His neuropathy is getting worse , not much that anyone can do about this , every time he moves he causes more spinal and nerve damage ...ho hum probably come home today with a hidden mini digger or something , it never crosses his mind that he cant do something till it goes wrong , then i get the "are you busy" phonecall or text to go and rescue him . Case in point got the phonecall the other day while i was hoovering , hed decided to go under the car on his wheely board and after scuttling round the drive a few times realised he had not a hells chance of getting off it . It took two of us to get him back on his very wobbly feet . As im chuntering into the house he shouts " you never know till you try" AAARRRGGGHHHH