I was tipped off by sarcastic son that Mr BH was up to something the other day , he had seen my dearly beloved counting a big stack of notes while i was out . Not saying anything i checked the safe only to find it empty . This is the emergency rent fund for when they stop all our funds yet again which we have been awaiting since March , this has took some saving all through Covid . So i made a few enquiring calls to his usual suspect mates and BIL . I wasnt surprised to find that he was organising the troops to pick up a trike this weekend !! Why does he convince himself he can ride again ? His health isnt getting better we are at various hospitals every week yet again , what the hell is he thinking ? We live in a scrapyard of scooters and bikes he thinks are valuable now, what the fuck was he doing ? I had pencilled in this weekend for a major argument and major sulk only to find him chucking stuff about yesterday and cussing . It would seem somebody beat him there with the cash . Oh dear what a shame. Then i got the whole saga of how if he fixed this trike he could have made a huge profit on it ...really ? he cant even walk to his workshop and the weeds are 6ft high around it. So now i have to put up with a major sulk for weeks and he has informed me he will find a trike on the internet somewhere ...AAARRRGGHH
That's just not on, taking money earmarked for rent. He's in cloud cuckoo land. I'd leave him for that.
ReplyDeleteI know it's not nice to say this but does he need some mental health assistance-I know someone well who likes to organise financial matters but I think at times they may be lapsing in and out of reality-I think it may only be time before a doctor will need to be consulted-which won't be pretty x
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking you are right. It could even be a form of dementia.
DeleteI think she should just call a scrap dealer and the sell the junk.
its the result of the mild strokes he had and the seizures from his drug treatment episode , so no hes not completely all there a lot of the time. Nothing i can do to change that , but at times hes bleedin crafty ..
ReplyDeleteWell I think you are doing great-I expect you have to be just one step ahead of him without him being aware x
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